Failure in the Victory Garden

Giving up...

...in many respects, it is the catalyst in releasing the weight of unnecessary burdens and it can be a very large step toward freedom from so many unrealistic expectations, both of you and by you.

You can learn a good deal about those around you in that process and if you do it right, you'll learn a whole shitload, about yourself. The good, the bad and the ugly and it can get very uncomfortably ugly.

Face it.
Accept it.
Embrace it.
Grow from it.

But I think people get confused in their understanding about it.
Giving up is NOT quitting.

It's also not (though it can be a part of) surrendering, which in my opinion and in a very spiritual sense, makes all the difference in what that giving up process ultimately winds up looking like because it detwrmines how it's approached.

It's a huge perspective changer.

When you stop to think about it (and you should) perspective is the only real difference between success and failure...
We don't know the whole picture.

It's quite litterally the whole premise of my blog...

Failure in the Victory Garden