As a parent I have learned that simply "being
there" and available in certain adverse and/or celebratory moments is
far more critical than we can even know. Our presence or lack thereof is
noticed even if we feel it may not be.
If we look at Job in the book of Job, even his friends (who were clearly in the end not even good friends) sat with him for days before uttering a word. I'm sure they must have had other things they should have been doing but they made themselves available.
We
would be wise to consider in advance, that once those moments in life
have passed they do not return, there are no do overs. What is done is
done. How we have responded or made ourselves available in those times
does however sends a very clear although perhaps unintentional message
to anyone who may be inclined to consider the bigger picture.
It
speaks clearly to the nature and condition of the relationship, and in
fact it is probably more indicative about our internal or spiritual
condition at that time, more than it might indicate anything at all
about where we might have been physically at that time.
Time...it
is the one resource we are afforded that is unknown in quantity, but
that we mistakenly treat as being unlimited in quantity.
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